Get Out of the Friends Zone: From Friend To Girlfriend
Having intimate and romantic feelings for a friend that you know doesn't share those feelings is a terrible experience. Love is a very powerful emotion, even more powerful is the feeling of the heart break you get when you realize that your friend doesn't see you as anything more than a "friend" or a "brother". There is good news though, you CAN get out of the friends zone and you CAN turn your friend into a girlfriend! Not only that, I am going to give you my quickest and most successful tips for getting out of the friend's zone for good!
Change the dynamic - Change the dynamic, now what does that mean? Well, what kind of a relationship do you and your friend have? Generally if you are in the friends zone it's because they don't see you in a romantic or sexual light. Instead, they see you in a "safe" and "secure" light which they attribute to family members and close friends they wouldn't have to have sex or date with. What's the best way to do this? Start flirting. If you've never done this before you don't need to come out strong. If you want to get out of the friends zone, start flirting slowly and slowly escalate how far you take it. Eventually, it will get embedded into their mind that you and her ARE sexually compatible and she will not only start imagining you two together, but she will start DESIRING you as well.
Become in-demand - We want most what we can't have. This is just a psychological fact of nature. There is a reason we are all hit on the most when we are currently in relationships. The best thing that you can do to get out of the friends zone is to make yourself more desirable by becoming more in demand. Start dating around and meeting other women and don't be afraid to bring it up in casual conversion with the friend you want to turn into a girlfriend. This will change how they see you in their eyes. They will see you as a man who is desired by women and since they know you they will NATURALLY grow deep attraction for you.
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Don't make her the center of your universe - Unfortunately, when we are attracted to someone we INSTINCTIVELY think that we have to give them all of our time. We do this for always being there for them, for talking or texting them several times a day, for always being around them, and for always doing things for them. While this is what MOST people do, this is by far the most counter-intuitive thing that you can possibly do. It is more damaging than any other thing you can do in a relationship with a woman. If you want to turn a friend to a girlfriend, you HAVE to ration your time. You have to give them time to miss you. If they are around you so much, they will quickly get tired and/or used to your presence and more importantly the mystery and mystique isn't there. They KNOW that you aren't out dating and meeting beautiful women, having the time of your life, etc. They know that you will always be there for them. You HAVE to shake things up and put THEM on the defensive, this makes them wonder if THEY are good enough and in turn THEY will start coming after YOU.
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